With new rules for social media coming, the focus for parents shifting. The legal responsibility to block under-16s from platforms like TikTok and Instagram now rests entirely with the tech companies, not families, meaning there are no penalties for parents or children.
This is a chance to reset your family’s digital habits.
Here’s how you can prepare for the change:
Start the Conversation Now: Use this as an opportunity to talk openly with your child. Ask questions like, “How do you feel about these changes?” and be prepared for them to feel upset or worried about being left out. It’s important to validate their feelings rather than dismissing them.
Create a Family Media Plan Together: Instead of imposing rules, co-create them. Agree on tech-free times and zones, like at the dinner table or in bedrooms overnight. Modelling good digital habits yourself is one of the most effective ways to teach them.
Explore Alternatives and Build Skills: Help your child find new ways to connect with friends and be creative online, such as through safer multiplayer games or design apps like Canva. Use this moment to build their digital literacy by discussing how to handle online risks like cyberbullying, which can still occur on messaging and gaming platforms not covered by the ban.
Focus on Real-Life Connection: Experts and surveys suggest that even kids who spend a lot of time online want more face-to-face time with family. Use the shift away from social media to encourage offline hobbies and in-person hangouts with friends.
